Picking up vampires is an art form and learning to do it successfully takes practice. Here are a few hot tips to empower you and make you more effective, courtesy of Vampire Hunter Franklin W. Fuggitt. Sometimes knowing what NOT TO DO or NOT TO SAY when picking up a vampire is even more important…… Continue reading Sex And The Single Vampire: Hot Tips On How To Pick Up Bloodsuckers!
I’m often asked, by people who know of my polyamorous nature, how it is that my partners and I deal with jealousy. The simple answer is: we don’t. A longer and perhaps snarkier answer is: jealousy is for amateurs who let their insecurities and fears control their emotions. Loving absolutely, no matter who you’re with,…… Continue reading Some Thoughts On Jealousy
I had another blog post all ready to go this week – pictures pulled, cutlines written, keywords in place, etc.* – when suddenly I had a Midge Maisel moment**: an interruption of prosaic thought with impulsive realization. Not quite an epiphany, but close. You see, I’ve tried really hard not to spend a lot of…… Continue reading The “C” Word: Coming Clean
Love is a concept with which I’ve struggled my entire life. Not the feeling itself, so much as the definition. Such as it is. What, after all, IS love? Every philosophy, every religion, every culture has its own definition, but none seem to come close to approximating the reality of the concept. That rush of…… Continue reading Loving Others
Filmmaking, to me, is a lot like sex. There’s a lot that has to happen before the act itself can be undertaken. Planning, scripting, casting, pre-production – it’s like foreplay – a very delicate dance and the reason most film projects never make it into the can, so to speak. Some are aborted because they’re…… Continue reading Getting Past The Teaser
A mouth-watering little blast from the past (15 years to be exact!) to celebrate my favorite time of the year. Written under the pseudonym Stan Van Helsing and published in Playtime Magazine, October 1999. Pleasant screams… The Erotic Book Of The Dead first came to light at the latter part of the 19th Century, when…… Continue reading Dead Heat